This text is an abbreviated version of the book by Lyudmila Petranovskaya “Secret Support. Affection in the life of a child. » Only the most valuable thoughts, ideas, cases, examples.
About the book
Every baby on an instinctive level knows the rules of the game: alone, without an adult who takes care of you, you are not a tenant. If the parent is not around or he is in no hurry to come to you, fight, shout, call! If no one comes in anyway, freeze, stop growing and wait for everything to work out. Or die.
In the book Secret Support. Attachment in a child’s life «Lyudmila Petranovskaya, the most famous family psychologist in Russia and winner of the RF President’s Prize, talks about how children’s attachment to parents works and why it is so important to satisfy a child’s basic need for it.
A person goes through five stages of growing up, increasingly leaving the care of parents. Listen to the audio-summari of «Secret Support» to survive with the least loss crises of child separation and make your child’s bond with you his support for life.
Why listen
• learn more about attachment theory and understand why children behave this way and not otherwise;
• learn not to create problems in the relationship with the child and solve the existing ones;
• get answers to the questions «Is it okay to leave the child crying in the crib?» and etc.;
• figure out how to behave so that the child develops and becomes independent.
about the author
Lyudmila Petranovskaya is a Russian psychologist and educator, laureate of the President of the Russian Federation in the field of education, co-founder of the Institute for the Development of Family Arrangements (IRSU) for future adoptive parents. The author of the bestselling books «If it is difficult with a child», «Selfmama. Life hacks for a working mother «,» What to do if … «,» What to do if … 2 «and others — the total circulation of her books is more than 1 million copies.
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